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What do i do 20 years married. judt found out he has this female friend! for a year? |
Travel Info What do i do 20 years married. judt found out he has this female friend! for a year? Travel Tips Communication is key in this situation. If you would like to continue your relationship with him and he with you - then communication is key. Is the relationship over or is it going to be over. Don't play second fiddle if its not. Talk to each other. Be honest, be firm and above all...understand. Its difficult to understand in these situations, but it possible. If this is something that makes you want to pull your hair out and you can't think straight - see a shrink or your pastor. Truly, someone trained in this area of guidance can help you sort out the details of what's important and what isn't. Lastly, even though you want to know...don't ask details about the two of them. Source(s): Too much experience Other Travel Tips sounds to me that he is a dog. Its now up to you to decide whether you can forgive him. I would say...once a dog always a dog......so if you do forgive, keep your eyes open for the signs of messing around. Good Luck to you. Is she a friend or .... If she's just a friend I would just calm down. my hubby and I have been together 11 yrs and went to Korea for a year and had a female friend that hung out with a bunch of guys he hung out with and no she wasn't sleeping around with them.... My sister-in-law had the same problem. They tried getting back together for about six or seven years but he kept up his relationship with this other woman the whole time. She finally left him one month ago. Darl, I know how you feel.If he see's her atleast once or twice a week he likes her a lot or loves her.If he just says hello when he see's her and that, don't worry.Is she a blonde? If she is ...look out! I'm a blonde and i know how they act. Except i'm 9 years old. First, thing to do is get financial things together and little at a time personal thing out. Once you do that. Plan a trip, the day you are going to leave fix his favorite dish put it in the refrigerator. Then put a note on the table telling him his dinner is in the refrigerator and you've let on a vacation. When you get back you will know where you stand. Either way then the ball is in your corner. Breaking up is hard to do, but being miserable is worse. Best. |
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