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Is my girlfriend cheating on me?
My girlfriend is in Los Cabos on vacation with two girlfriends. She called me last night around 1130pm and told me how much she misses me and that she wishes that I would have gone with her. We talked for a bit and while she was about to say goodnight and turn it in she got another call and I was put on hold. When she got back on the line she told me that she had to go and get ready because the three guys (locals) that her and her 2 girlfriends had met at the club the night before are coming by thier room to "hang out" for the night. I kinda bit my tounge and said goodnight etc. But, I haven't been able to get my mind off of things since then. Am I being overly jealous or do I have a valid worry? I'm thinking 3 guys and 3 girls perfect match. Also one of her girlfriends that she is with is a mutual friend and is a bad influence and tries to get her to forget about being in a relationship when I'm not around. Please help me...any advice would be great.

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Hi Hon. I hope I can help. You would not believe how often I see this happen here in Cabo. I'm going to reassure you that this is a very, very, small town and there are a handful of locals guys we all know that hang out in the same places every night and every single week they see a new group of tourista girls come into town wanting to raise hell.

80% of the time, these guys are just looking for dance partners, maybe have a little fun, get a little grope in on the dance floor. No big deal. Every so often they hit it big and find a tourista girl who wants a "what happens in cabo stays in cabo" experience and they get lucky. All harmless.

The part that surprises me, is when these tourista girls up the anti by inviting them back to their rooms! This is where the potential for it to get ugly could occur. Not that it will. Very very rare! But we have had on occasion some transient workers that have seen these rich tourista girls all drunk and stupid and think hmmmm maybe they wouldn't miss a purse or some jewelry. Then they leave town before sunrise.

Another thing to mention is that our Mexican men cannot believe how loose american, canadian, european woman seem with their morals! You should see what those girls do on the dance floor! god. So they may think an invite to a room is a sure ticket. I don't blame them. In a group setting it is not likely to happen, and especially in a resort. Hell, those guys probably know all the resort workers anyways.

I would not worry about it. These guys are harmless and half of them are married with children anyway!

If you and your girl are solid then you know she's not going to cross that line. Simple as that. Go with her next time buddy!
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In my honest and up front thought about this she cheated on you she was probably drunk and didnt care if she really cared about you she wouldnt had three guys in her room why you hold your tongue you should let her know what the heck is going on!! since she is outta state or country people follow the rules what ever happens in Los Cabos stays there and she will probably keep it that way since she has a friend that doesnt care about you so if her friend is single she is going to encourage your girlfriend to do the same cause she doesnt care be careful but if you think you g/f wont do that to you then so be it by i know if i am drunk anything goes
i think if she had ANY intention to cheat on you, she would have never told you about the three guys!! i think she honestly missed you, and called because she cares. however she is on vacation and if someone asked her to go out to some clubs, then she should do that. i think the fact that she told you, means she was being upfront and had nothing to hide.

you know your girlfriend. i think what she said to you was sincere. if you think for some reason she is a cheater, then you have reasons...but people don't cheat out of the blue. just because she was in mexico doesn't mean she would cheat. if she's a cheater, she'd cheat on you at home, right under your nose. so don't think she's going to turn in to some crazy person just because she's on vacation.