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How can i convince him that he is making a wrong decision????? |
Travel Info ok....i met a guy online..and we have been talking for about a year...he's from egypt....and we are both in deeply in love...we realize our differences in culture...and we are past that..he is really open minded..and very intelligent...which is qualities i love. we spend as much time as we can with one another via the internet. recently (today)....he told me that he will no longer talk 2 me anymore...and that it was for my benefit....that i need 2 focus on my life ....and he doesnt want to be a problem for me. ...this shocked the hell out of me.....he told me he didnt want to do it....but it was for my good....i do realize by him saying this it just proves that he really does love me....but....how can i convince him that he is wrong in wanting us to break up????????? Travel Tips You'll do yourself and him good by accepting and respecting his decision. This- what you two have- will bring nothing but misery and unhappiness to both of you. I recon if he is sincere in his decision that he really loves u, and that he wants what is best for you. Sometimes great love is not by possession, it is by "letting go". Sometimes you let someone go because you really really love them in a way that they will never understand and that u just have to let them go to avoid the unhappiness of your impossible situation together. Just trust this dude and respect his decision. If you two are meant to be together, then some day, some how, you will see ways that will bring you too together. But that's not your decision. It's the decision of a greater power called destiny. Others It's possible that he hasn't been truthful to you all along and is trying to let you down easy before you find out who he really is. Ask him why? What brought this feeling of wanting to break up?..Is this reall-y what he wants? Explain to him how you feel...but if he makes it clear that its over...you need to then tell him that it's going to take time, but you will eventually move on, and that he needs to be sure of his decision, because your feelings are not to be played with! ( ex: he cannot call you in a month and say he misses you and expect for things be all good). Make yourself clear and make sure you both make a decision and stick to it. Hopefully you can work your problems out! If you aren't ready to marry him and you can't meet him while he is in love with you, I think he is right and he should go away. He seemed to be a good person that he want you to decide to be with him forever or leave him forever. As a man I can understand him. He will not be happy to stop talking to you, but for him it's once and for all better than this situation. My Advice : You should ask yourself what kind of relation you like it to be (friendship, marriage, on line friendship) he already choosed that he want marriage. What about you? in order to keep this relation, both partners should chose the same kind of relation (marriage, friendship or on line friendship) Good luck in your decision. i don't think you should convince him,,i think you have had a Lucky escape from this man as maybe he has a back round side to him that he didn't inform you of or that family have put pressure on him to stick to his own society and marry an Egyptian woman write an email expressing your feelings for him and how u miss him already , that u tried to live wz the new fact he chose but being in hell is a mercy that what he did to the only perfect thing in your life. give promises (you have to keep them remember) that u gonna make the first step and come to meet him in egypt ( you have too any way, being in two different palces maks u stangers) be yourself when talking to him , honest and smart . best of luck well sweety, i lived this story before , it's the same exactly story... but i'm the one from Egypt n he was from England... this relation is a fake one believe me...u never met before, u're both in love with words n pictures and who knows maybe he's lying to u in so many things, i donno but i dont want u to go through this relation more than that...when he told u that he wanna break up, this means only 2 things, either he really loves u (or he thinks he's in love with u...cuz it's an illusion love) or he met a new egyptian girl n he went with her through a relation n maybe it's a serious one...so if u still want this guy, the only thing to do is letting him fly to u, or u come here to egypt n meet, this will make things clear...n the best is that u come here... i'm sorry if i'm bothering u with my words but i've been through this b4 n u should learn from others...it ended up with a damn big lie....felt so stupid..good luck anyway |
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