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How do I find out if he loves me??


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He proposed few weeks ago , it was a blinde date , but I think we were fit , I kind of liked him when I first saw him , we met like 4 times now, I think of him all the time , in different situations and yes I feel like liking him a lot , how do I find out if he loves me... sometimes I feel he does , other times I feel he is still hesitant ..

Guys... you too can help, I mean you know the tricks .. right?

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I think the answer is somewhat based in your cultural traditions. Since you posted in the Egypt forum I will give my answer somewhat based on what little I know of this culture...
I know that in many cultures people don't really 'date', they meet someone they like get engaged and get married.
Most of the answers you have gotten so far seem like they are from 'westerners' (and although I am one of them but my perspective is different from most) who would say this is a crazy way of approaching marriage but I think it is actually better. (Saving intimacy for marriage and just spending the engagement getting closer and letting love grow instead of doing everything up front, hoping to fall in love and maybe getting married. Then if it doesn't work out moving on to the next person.) Besides I don't believe it would be acceptable in your culture for the two of you to live together and then make a decision, as one person suggested.

The two of you could get engaged and have an engagement of about 6 months or more. This will give you more time to get to know him and find out who he really is and if you really are compatible. I don't believe he can truly love you already, but he can be completely infatuated with you and this is one of the first steps to being in love with and loving someone, at least in my experience.

However if he proposed to you and is now acting hesitant, I would be careful! Maybe he is just proposing to you in search of something else... Since I don't know all of the details or anything more about this man I can't say that he isn't honorable but he could be looking for an intimate relationship (sex) instead of marriage. So my suggestion is just maintain your virtue whatever you do; tyr to maintain a logical perspective and don't let your infatuation make decisions for you; and finally, continue to spend time getting to know each other and if he sticks around you will find out his true intention with time.
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It's hard to say unless you live with him for a while...Even married couples find out that they just liked each other instead of loved them all along so family break-ups happens.. I do advice for you to wait longer because I assume that the proposition was for marriage..Some work out and some don't..The most important thing is to ask yourself if you really love this guy and not the other way around..It is better to have loved and loss than to never loved at all..A quote I heard somewhere
this relationship is moving too fast!!!!!!!
give it some time.........alot of abusers want to move fast get you in deep and then show thier true colors.......be careful.......a test would be to break it off for a week and see what happens
Met 4 times? No he doesn't love you and you don't love him. It is merely infatuation at this point. Until you have spent more time in real life situations you don't know one another's true self. Slow down what's the rush?
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Time!!! That's what you need before marrying this guy or even moving out with him. Please get to know him better, meet his friends and family. The average rate of divorces is getting higher every time as people are getting married just for the fun of it (aka celebrity wedding) The number of people being killed by psychos they find over the net or on the streets is alarmingly high too. You will find if he really loves you if he gives you more time and not rush you into anything you don't want to do, if he respects and values your opinions and feelings, if he introduces you to his friends and family. Don't think lust or infatuation is love. Whatever you do, please think of yourself first and don't do anything which will cause you pain or make you feel bad about yourself.
Brrrrr.
U say he proposed to you!!!
Duh??
What more do you need from a guy to prove he loves you?
Poor us guys. We always have to struggle with women who are complicated. The guy proposes and she is still asking if he loves her or not..
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