What would you do?

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My met him 11 months ago. The first 10 months our relation was so nice, since the day I started working. He became distant and when I asked him about this, he used to say that it was because our schedules now were not easy to match.

During this first month working.... I lost a negotiation in which I was going to earn about $5,000 just enough to buy my airplane ticket to Egypt. He knew that this negotiation was so important to me and he did not ask anything.

A week ago we were talking about this... he opened his cam to show me his new shirt. While we were talking he was smiling with some friends (girls), he look cute and I told him to stay with them.

I couldn't win the negotiation, and buying a ticket to be together is so expensive for both of us.

I am realistic, as I know that everything is against us to be together and I asked him to think about it and to let me know his decision in a mail. A week had passed and nothing.

How do I interpret his silence?

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you already know the answer to your question you just want someone that impartial to say it.

the guys just not that into you, your job, or you going in his direction.

if he was truly the one, he would have shared in your decision and discussed the negotiation issues at work.

being interested in the opposite sex is not a bad thing, as friends but his diatancing him self from you and his apparent enjoyment of other females along with his lack of interest in your needs and getting you to where he is speaks volumns.

i noticed you put all his needs before yours by making it his decision to call you. whay are you giving up your vote in the matter.

ultimatum given means an unadaptable problem, there doesnt have to be an either or. obviously you have thrown down the gauntlet and the guys not picking it up.

remain friends, but let the guy go. you have your own decisions to make according to your wants , needs and desires. if he has not lived up to them by now , he is not going to live up to them in the future.

we are who we are, and trying to change a person or pressure them into a decision will not work. do you want someone to change you into what they want you to be instead of loving you for the person you are.

of coarse you dont. start looking for someone who has some of your common interests and puts some of your needs ahead of his.

i read a quote once that said you can always know when a guy is truly in love when he starts thinking more of the girl than he does of himself.

putting each other first is how you build something that lasts a lifetime. and you sound like someone who wants a future.

good luck, and remember you are a very special person in your own right, so be proud of that. jackie b
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uh...he dumped you. he obviously is a cad and does not deserve you. just chalk it up to a big sigh of relief that you found out he was this way before you went there. he did you a favor.
I think he does not deserve your love. Throw him into the trash and whenever we wants to come back to you because he did not find another girl like you send him to h e l l. For sure he is dating with another girls, he is a stupid guy for playing with your feelings which jump to the sight that are so good as "you" were trying to save and not him. Maybe he just wanted to go out of his country or if I am wrong let him demonstrate you that if he loves you that he fights for you and dont be a coward as now.
i think you deserve better sweetie :) i know that you where think of him all the time and he doesnt give any **** why doesnt he come and see you why should you go and see him forget him and find someone who is worth you :) he will be a lucky person
i'm against long distance relationship, specially that u never saw him in real...guys like to entertain themselves in any mean...dont trust some words over the net...u seem to be a nice and mature girl, so dont just go with the flow, he's a man n if he's serious he must take the step to u...u deserve better...
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