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Two neighbors, 1 straight, 1 gay, and need a babysitter for your baby, which to choose? |
Travel Info Two neighbors, 1 straight, 1 gay, and need a babysitter for your baby, which to choose? Travel Tips If the baby is too young to understand the difference, then it doesn't really matter. If the child can understand verbal and body language and will be able to recognize that something is different about the gay one, then the straight babysitter is by far the better choice. Children emulate those people they bond with early in life, and I would not want to foster an environment that would perhaps show my child how wonderful being gay is while they are unable to comprehend the multitude of problems and stigmas associated with such a lifestyle. If the gay babysitter wants to be gay, so be it. Just don't want my children to be taught that it's perfectly acceptable and maybe even a preferable lifestyle by someone who's already living that lifestyle and is biased towards it. It's not PERFECTLY acceptable behavior, it's deviant, and it most certainly isn't preferable unless you're a masochist who enjoys living a life with people talking behind your back and looking at you like you're a freak. Though everyone wants to say they're not homophobic and they accept gay people, the society at large will always recognize under the surface the unnatural behavior and alternative lifestyle choices made by homosexuals as deviant and twisted. I don't want my child to be taught at a young age that this isn't true and gay is just fine in every respect, when in fact it is a lifestyle choice that places one in a minority group. And that minority group is often looked upon as sick, mentally challenged, crosswired, or even deplorable and sinful by society as a whole. Support your child and their choices later in life, but don't give them a babysitter that might instill poor family values or the false hope that homosexuality is wonderful when so many aspects of the life of a gay individual are made more difficult because of the gay lifestyle choice they have made. It's a tough life that I wouldn't want to have my child live, so why run the risk of allowing someone to promote it? Source(s): Not homophobic, just hetero & happy. Other Travel Tips Either, Or, it should make no difference at all. The nice one. mm depends on who is more capable to take care of my baby. I choose the one I know the best, that has bonded with my child or at least show the greatest level of maturity and trust worthness, what a strange question. Are you homophobic, or do you simple think everyone else is. gay but it doesnt really matter. just no cho mo's |
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