Can you help me out in this situation??

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I have this friend of mine who ALWAYS wears my clothes and i mean ALWAYS, and she is careless about them

I mean i have a black jacket that i bought from Lebanon , it cost me 100 usd, so i wanted to wear it today, and to my shock I found the color faded and worn out and it STINKS, so i confronted her and told her , is this my jacket??

She said yes, i told her why is it like this, then she said , i put it in the washing machine, im sorry, So i told her do you know how much i paid for this, and she was like , how much 30 dollars :S, I was like WHAT. So i told her, please wash it by your hands or take it to the dry cleaner next time..

So she wanted to wear a top i bought as well, and she said " may God bless you GH for your cloth" so i told her yeah, but please don鈥檛 put this in the washing machine, its expensive, then she said ohh yeah how much you bought it, and i was like WHAT.. I don鈥檛 care about money, but i do care about my clothing鈥檚..

So to make things worse. I have another black jacket that I wanted to wear, and it also stinks, she doesn鈥檛 wash them nor takes good care of my cloth. I never wore anything from her clothing, because I don鈥檛 like using anyone鈥檚 private things,

What should I tell her in a polite way??? She is a very good friend but it has gotten out of control, and I work very hard to earn my money, and pay for decent things,

Ohh she is very cheap, when we were in Lebanon, I took her with me shopping, so I spent a lot on my cloth, and she bought REALLY REALLY cheap cloth that she doesn鈥檛 wear now, because its all torn out.

Im not bragging and I don鈥檛 like to talk about these stuff, but I was really pissed off today, because all of my clothing were used by her..

Travel Tips

Like Webby said in her previous question:
Don't you know how to say NO to her?

It's obvious that she's a careless messy person, so don't lend her your new cloths...when she wants to borrow your stuff like today with the new top, tell her no, not this one cuz I will wear it later or because it's new and I haven't worn it yet or tell her I need to wash it or something ... then make her choose something from your old cloths...the ones that you don't care what happens to, the ones that you were going to get rid of anyway...marra 3ala marra she will get the big picture and she will leave you alone.
If she doesn't get it, then you should be as wi27a as her and tell her to her face to go get her own cloths

BTW...thank God I had only 1 brother and we never shared cloths but if anyone wanted to wear my cloths i would say NOOOOOOOOOOO, especially if she will bring them back with a stink...Ghannouge, 7ayeti don't be so good, she's using you Source(s): EDIT
I like Webby's solution...lol
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I am sorry to tell you that your fault GH, it is your private clothes that you cant share with another person. tell her that your clothes are urs, and you never want to wore hers why she wants yours?
if that will not work tell her taht you have a problem with your skin and maybe she will be contaminated...
My friend you are all stressed, here's what you do.
you go on that diet for stressed women

1- you stop stressing about this
2- you put on too much weight, you won't be her size anymore

et voila!!!
anytime you need a solution to your problems come to webby.
My dear, i sincerely feel your pain. I know exactly where the shoe is pinching you as i have been is a similar situation b4. A few years back, i had two friends who were living with me and did similar things to what your friend is doing. To solve the problem, i simply moved out of the house for them. 2day, we are still very good friends. I suggest that u part ways with her and keep ur friendship. That way u can enjoy the dual benefits of not being continually offended and keeping ur friendship with ur friend. If u allow things to remain the way they are, u r going to have to go ur separate ways someday but in unpalatable circumstances and u both may never be good friends again.

Good luck
why do you share your clothes with others?

i had many bad experience too. my friends asked me to lend some clothes to them, but they never returned to me. so, i just learned not to share my clothes with others.

you should just stop leeting her to wear you stuffs, because she never cares your stuffs.
File for a divorce.