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I'm russian, but i think want to go out with an indian guy, do you think my parents will be mad? |
Travel Info I'm russian, but i think want to go out with an indian guy, do you think my parents will be mad? Travel Tips I think the answer depends alot on your family. What do they think of people of different colored skin? There has been quite a few cases of violent racism by Russians upon people of color, and some areas of Russia are worse then others. It might not be fair, but you do need to consider at length what effect this will have on your family, yourself and your community. If it means not being accepted by any of them then you could be beginning a very difficult future. You should at least have an idea how people of different races are treated by the people in your city/community and by your family. If they are thought of in a very negative way then you need to be prepared for any consequences or reactions and be prepared to deal with them. Alot of the previous answers seem to be unaware of the situation in Russia and instead are talking about how nice Indian people are(and many definately are). I think trying to guage the level of acceptance you would receive from the people around you and then measuring that against the value of going out with the guy from India is the best idea, and also making sure he understands the situation as well. Since you are asking the question in the first place it sounds like you are carefully considering the situation which Is good. Others they not only gonna be mad,they will go nuts!! well in my opinion indian are very tight to their culture n religion, i give u an example, an indian wife can never ever ever think to even talk to a guy(even if tht guy asking for a direction or etc)and if he found out about it..u are in huge trouble.. i know he sounds not like whut im sayin right now for u..but once u become his property....then u are in big trouble dear. for me i prefere a man from same neighbourhood coz they are more understanding in every aspect.. so don fall for ths guy.just be friend with him=) If the guy is a Hindu, well I think there can be a problem. As for a Christian - there are no problems at all. I have 2 friends who are married to Russian girls and they are extremely happy with their married lives. They have 1 kid each and one of them will soon have a second one too. The girls are so happy that they dont even want to go back to Moscow. Infact not only Russian - I have seen so many nationalities getting married to Indian guys and are happily married. Everybodys not the same, remember you can not judge every Indian person from the actions of a few. My answer to you is follow your heart. I am Indian and my whole family are mixed and very happy. Most uncles, aunties, brothers and sisters are married to non-Indians and we have a great extended family where everyone gets on just fine. Actually one of my uncles married and English lady and they have moved to India, they have three beautiful children. Good Luck. ask your parent and u will know the answer if he is a decent guy, if he loves you and treats you well, who cares about his nationality?? and if i love the guy , i dont care what other people say... Thinking is good. Put everything in perspective first since you haven't embarked on anything yet. If he is worth it, after all those considerations which include your family, relatives and friends, whether their opinions count or not, will truly matter if the relationship moves on to the next level. Its really easy to say, there are no boundaries in love or relationships especially interracial ones, but unfortunately there are. If it's not with you, it's with the other person. We have this idea that things like that can exist in a perfect world but it doesn't. Contrary to some, there are no levels for races. Everyone is equal in their own right. Some might think they are superior but other races might think less of them. So it's better to keep our own racially provocative comments to ourselves. I remember hearing an American and an Indian in a conversation. The American says, "You Indians smell bad to us." then the Indian says, "oh, We think you smell bad too." The moral? Don't judge because other races can say a lot of bad things back too, an example of which is that everyone is either drunk, are mail-order-brides or worse yet prostitutes. Do we want to be called that? Think it over first before you do start. You might think it will be perfect but other people, the circles we move in, are definitely not. |
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