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Here's my dilemma...?

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My cuz in Trini & I have always been cool..in fact I consider her like a little sister.. so last year she ask me 2 borrow some $$ cuz she wanted to take some courses..so I tell she is no scene.. no need to repay, just do well in school & call dat George.. come to find out, d money I senn she, she gone & buy clothes & didn't even put it toward school.. so she call me d odda day & cryin on d fone askin me to lend she 3000 TT 2 put as security for an apartment.. cuz she get put out d house, she step dad put she out & she juss dey movin from pillar 2 post.. my ?? is, would I be wrong if I don't want to give it to her? Especially wit her track record & what she do d last time.. I call my aunt (her mom) 2 find out if she really get kick out & she did.. part of me feelin bad dat she out on d street, but at the same time, she took my kindness for a weakness & took advantage of that.. would I be wrong for not wanting to help or should the nice side of me just help her regardles

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She must learn to stand on her own two feet. I won't give her, next thing she calling again for next month's rent, and rent not cheap here. These are the consequences of her actions, she got to learn.
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your being used. dont't give her another dime.
i would just give her a small amount of money. thats karma for her.
Wish her well, but don't give her any more money, she's already taken advantage of your kindness. She will never learn to be responsible if she keeps getting money from her friends. Good luck to you.
no its her fault if she abused the money in the first place how can you trust her now
help her give her grace, and if she hurts you again stop helping her. She hurt you ,so forgive, but do not lat it happen again.
I think you have the answer. Your instinct already has told you to withhold. So dont give in pal. Your feeling that she is misusing your trust seems to be right so go with it. You will actually be doing her a favour by teaching her right from wrong, albeit the hard way.