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My mother has married a Tunisian after 3 holidays there.? |
Travel Info My mother is a great but very naive woman. She is 58 and has low self-esteme at the moment due to her weight. She went to Tunisia on holiday a year ago and has since been back on 3 other ocasions. Last month she returned and informed us she had got married to a 28 year old Tunisian. We are a very close family and she has shocked us all. What should we do? Should we sit back and wait for her to loose everything she has ever worked for??. Travel Tips Well, it is obvious as you well know what this young man is after - the UK equivalent of a green card and of course her money. The minute he has those things he will be off with someone his own age. I guess the only thing you can do is keep mum on side - be outwardly supportive of her husband and keep him close in the family - that way you can keep your beady eyes on him! If there is something you are not comfortable with then you must question this with your mum. Has your mum made a will - if not, perhaps you could assist her with this and ensure any assets are left with HER family and not him. This is cheap to do and is certainly sensible in your case. There is a saying - keep your friends close but your enemies closer! It is hard when a woman gets older - maybe it has been a while since your mother has felt wanted and attractive to a man and unfortunately, she has fallen for this boy's charm. Good luck. x Others say tara to your inheritance no easy way out of this one, sorry. It must have been a real shock to you. Maybe this will all end in disaster or maybe she will suprise you all and enjoy many good years with her new hubby. Either way, its her life and you should be there for her to support her. She will especially need you all if it all goes wrong which, statistics show, may well happen. Dont allienate her by telling her off for what she did, you are understanding enough to appreciate why she got married in the first place. Get your sibs together and try to convince her to let you get your things from her house. The silver tea set, Great Gran's wedding ring, and all that. When he finishes cleaning her out, you will have something to give her to start over. What else can you do, it's fu ck all to do with you if your mother's desperate. try it though, the old "it's either him or me" but there slippery bastards those Tunisians Mmmm same happened to barmaid down our local. Seems Tunisian men like older plumper women. Be very watchfull as they also have a tendancy to treat there woman like second class citizens. They think nothing of lifting there hands to them. You may also find he will want to go home every few months and see his family and also pay his family. He also will need to check on his Taunisian wife and children. Yip there generaly cheating shite bags. My mother went there and she was well and trully told that there would be no Tunisian male following her home. I feel for you and don't know what to say for sure. Just be watchfull and be ready to step in with a firm hand at the first sign of any bullshit. |
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