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At work I met a turkish guy who apparently wants something. .Can you explain me the psychology of turkish men? |
Travel Info I do appreciate him, because he is very good looking, very polite and very kind...But he seems to be very shy, and sometimes very mysterious... Obviously he is interested in me, but he seems not to dare to ask me...And I don't know wheter he is really a good guy, or just a guy who plays like an actor...He offers me coffes, but he hasn't still proposed me to go to restaurant...I dont' know wheter it's shyness or indifference...He seems to care for me, but he does nothing...I don't understand... I would like to know what is the common psychology of a 30 years old average turkish man... Can you tell me any good tips and advice regarding this situation... And also I would like to know : In general, when a non-turkish girl has a a relationship with a turkish boy, is she happy or not ? Thank you in advance... Travel Tips First of all it depends on what you want from him, i mean you are interested in him as a personality for a relation or as a freind?In this case it depends also on you. You can not exclude the fact tha being a foreighner, he wants to show you his hospitality, it is not obligatory to want something elses.. Maybe he is shy, he doesnt dare, because he is afraid if you reject him. He doesnt know maybe if you as a foreigner you accept him, and by a kinfd way he tries to express a sympathy to you. Only by the contact of everyday you ll find out, and through friendship. But oyu must know, and i have always repeated it, that the nationality has nothing to do with the feelings.They say oriental men are rough and bla bla bla...I can assure you that there are some''europeans''who are so hungry, and express their admiration with such vulgarity, that they make you disgust them People in all dimensions of theplanet have the same needs, others have education, others not.. It doesnat have to do with the nationality.Certainly, there are traditions, there are behaviours more mediterraneans lets say, more nothern, but the education, the ''savoir vivre''and the way to be elegant in your behavious to a woman have always to do with the person and not with his flag... Others you know what? there are more than 70 million Turks only living in t眉rkiye there are also some living abroad. men are men. you cannot generalize all of them. if u were talking about 100 people as male Turkish population, then i would have something to say but in this case, you will have to find out yourself there's no one fixed answer here. he sounds weird to me though. you ask him to a coffee place and see if you like him. most Turkish men and women have arranged marriages so he may be caught up in one it happen to a Turkish guy i was date i was out she was in what mum says goes there mum come before any one or anything he may be to frighten to get to know you because of this everybody different no matter what race. my advice is get him drunk!really drunk.x :-) Turkish men are shy..So u must do something first to start a relationship, if u like him. They are happy, don't worry. PS: If that guy is educated and serious, then u won't have any problem..And they don't always lie..Don't worry. It seems he is interested but he has reserves. Maybe he isn't sure how you will respond. Maybe he doesn't know how things are done there. Well, if I was in your position, I would talk about a restaurant I would like to go to, when he is offering a coffee. He must be smart enough to take the hint. If he is not... well, he is the one who must overcome shyness, now, isn't he? And as for the happiness, Turkish guys are as diverse as guys from other nationalities. Only you can decide what kind of a person he is (once/if you date, of course). |
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