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Should i accept my dad's offer or stay with my boy friend? |
Travel Info My boyfriend and I made a plan for this summer.. He is working as an intern in an advocat's office... so he wont be able to get a summer holiday... And our plan was to stay together this summer.. My father doesnt approve my relationship with him coz he thinks that he's using me. But he would never do that.. He's a sweet guy.. My father doesnt want him coz of the rich-poor situation... Anyway my dream was to go to Italy on my own. So my dad is gonna give me the house keys for me to stay there on my own for 16DAYS... I still can not believe it and its a bad timing. I promised to stay with my boy friend this summer and we were just gonna spend our time in Turkey... but now this came up.... Staying in the house on my own was my dream... how can i explain it to my boy friend, without hurting him_? Travel Tips Hello Selin. I agree with PINKY she had it short and right. You never know if you will stay with that person. But no matter how long passes your dad will always be your dad. First of all try not to lie to your dad. If you truly love him postpone Italy tell your dad the truth, and go with him some other time, its not the end of the world. You will always have a second chance, don't ruin your trust with your dad or boyfriend. No one here can understand your situation like you do. It is you who knows what is right to do. Follow your heart but don't lie to dad. Others dont be daft..... take the offer! Accept the offer. Tell ur bf 'my dad wants like this.sorry' I don't think he can say something to ur dad... Italy for sure. If you and your boyfriend are happy together and meant to be together at this stage in your life, then you will have plenty of time to spend with after the summer holiday. If it is your dream to stay in this place by yourself, then do this. You have to live for yourself. Do what makes you happy and your boyfrien dhould understand. If he does not understand, then maybe he is not right for you. You must value your father and respect his opinion on certain matters because he is your father. Yor dad wants what is right for you, even if you don't agree with how he feels at times. Follow you dreams and go after certain oppurtunities when they arise. Have fun in Italy! Do what ever you wanna do.... take him with you :)) When we are young, we tend to believe that 'our parents' do not understand anything about love and our feelings. As we grow older we begin to understand the feelings of our parents. I am a father of a girl now, so I guess I can understand your situation. My dear Selin, I personally think you are a bit young to live with your boyfriend. I don't care about the rich/poor situation. He is going to be a lawyer (and get rich), that's good. But your dad is concerned about you and your feelings. He doesn't want you to get hurt. He loves you. Maybe you should think this over again. Your boyfriend should also try to understand your father. Ask him what he would do if he was a father and his daughter wanted to stay with her boyfriend. By the way, when I was your age I used to fall in 'love' every 2-3 months :)))))) And each time I thought it was the real thing. Believe me, you can't explain him without hurting. You promised, it is not wise to break it,especially in a relationship,which all depends on trust. Your choice. And i suggest you to stop living in old Turkish movies,as if you are Filiz Akin and he's Ediz Hun. World is changing.Turkey is changing.That sharp peaks "the rich" "the poor" are not there anymore. At least not working like those movies anymore. ** Additional: My intention is not to make fun of you. I do believe, poor/rich thing is not an issue.If a person make a living with his/her earnings,i don't consider that poor.Every person want more.Greed is very human. |
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